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Returning to School?

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I have a saying that I use in my coaching practice: disabled and neurodivergent folks are the canaries in our coal mines. Typically, miners took canaries into the mines with them to let them know when gas had built up to high and the oxygen was running out. If they left when the canaries stopped singing, then everyone got out alive.

Like canaries in mines of old, meeting our needs as disabled and neurodivergent individuals in turn ensures that everyone else is safe and has their needs met. As we consider reopening schools, the concerns I have about my disabled, autistic daughter’s needs being met at school are not only for her benefit, but also for the benefit of all of her abled and disabled, neurotypical and neurodivergent classmates as well as the staff at her school. So here are a few questions I think we need to answer collectively before we go back to school.

No Child Left Behind

To begin with, some students will be able to go back to school and others will not. Perhaps because of disabilities they have themselves or perhaps because they live with folks who are high risk. How will these students be accommodated? How will we ensure their education continues to be supported and that no child is left behind? And how will we help students catch up from work when each family had different abilities to support education within their home context during isolation?

Bring Back EA’s

Many students rely on Educational Assistants for everything from scribing to impulse control to toileting, and many students and teachers depend on them for classroom management and academic assistance, regardless of ability. Still, many jurisdictions have spent the last several years laying off EA’s. What actions will school boards take to ensure that all students requiring educational assistants have access to those EA’s, and that those with compromised immune systems and impulse control issues have 1:1 supports to keep themselves and those around them safe in the classroom?

Lower Classroom Numbers

As classroom numbers have gone up in jurisdictions around the continent, spacing between desks has become increasingly tight, to the point where wheelchairs simply cannot maneuver around classrooms. What began as a need for access for my daughter is now a safety issue for all students and their families. How will school boards reduce class sizes to ensure adequate separation between students? And how will they do so in ways that do more to INCLUDE vs EXCLUDE students with disabilities?

Integrate Mental Health Supports for All

Mental health issues have taken a huge toll on students over the past three months – especially those who have felt targeted or expendable because of their race, class or disabilities. A large number of students have also lost loved ones – including caregivers – to COVID. Yet mental health services – including sensory supports, emotional regulation work and trauma-informed practices – have been sorely lacking in most schools. How will we use this as an opportunity to expand on, revamp and reframe our mental health services to be inclusive and accessible to all students across the needs and abilities spectrum? How will we work to rebuild connections and reinvigorate our students with the agency they need to process the trauma they have individually and collectively been through? And how will we bridge the gaps between students whose experiences were mostly healthy with those who have suffered greatly?

As you can see, these concerns are not limited to our disabled and neurodiverse students. And their solutions will not simply benefit the few. As with all areas of universal design: when all are accommodated, all benefit.

The question is whether we’ll notice if the canaries we’re carrying stop singing their song.

One response to “Returning to School?”

  1. So I click ‘like’, but it does not really describe my response to this excellent reflection. The last line will stay with me for some time.
    Signed, Canary

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About the program

In 2017 I was newly self-diagnosed with atypical autism, struggling with burnout, and striking out when it came to therapists who could address the issues I was facing. At the same time, I was building skills around life coaching, shame reduction, and trauma-informed therapy for work. Gradually I realized that what I needed – an embodied, autonomous, agency-driven coaching approach to unmasking – was not something I was going to find “out there”, but something I was going to need to create if I wanted to recover my life. This was the moment the Values Based Integration Process was born.

Having developed the program for myself – and having seen the incredible results it brought in my own life – I began to use it with coaching clients. The results were out of this world!

After conversations with Dr. Devon Price, the technique was featured in his book Unmasking Autism. With it, came interest in the technique and the decision was made to begin training coaches and therapists to help make this toolkit more readily available.


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